Mandodari and the Aesthetic Self: Redefining Beauty Through Compassion
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- May 8, 2025

By Vaibhavi Danwar
What is beauty, and for whom does it really exist? In a world that is so frequently besotted with superficial brilliance, ancient Indian philosophy challenges us to penetrate deeper into the spaces where emotion, goodness, and spirit become one. Here, beauty is not the symmetry of shape or the luster of decoration; it is the quiet blossoming of kindness, the unshakeable dedication to justice, and the vibration of the soul with something greater than itself. It is here in this radiant realm that characters such as Mandodari, the queen of Lanka, appear not merely as ideals of physical beauty, but as ideals of a higher, ethical beauty that lies beyond the mortal eye.
Mandodari’s personality, interwoven throughout the lines of the Ramayana, is a testament to the strength of piety and emotional complexity as ideals of beauty. Her grief for Sita, her reprimands of Ravana, and her unshakeable commitment to dharma create a picture of beauty based on karuṇa the rasa of compassion. In her sorrow, her wisdom, and her unshakeable heart, Mandodari is a mirror for the aesthetic self imagined by Abhinavagupta: a self in which the experience of deep, universal feeling erases personal ego and reaches the eternal.
Rasa and the Universalization of Feeling
Against the radiant backdrop of Indian aesthetic philosophy, Abhinavagupta stands out as a colossus figure of a philosopher who conceived of beauty not as a question of appearances, but as an intense revelation of the inner self. For him, beauty (saundarya) was never just a question of the eye’s pleasure; it lay in the power of art and experience to transcend the limits of egohood and pull the soul into communion with cosmic feeling.
Expanding on the basis of Bharata’s Nāṭyaśāstra, Abhinavagupta explains that the experience of beauty (rasa) elevates the viewer above the individual into a realm where feelings are no longer tied to ego or situation. Sorrow, love, or compassion here are not one’s own; they become expansive, communal, and cleansed. In these moments, the self (ātman) is not overshadowed but shed luminous in its ability to vibrate with the deeper harmonies of being. Beauty, in this understanding, is an awareness of this common interiority, this instantaneous but deep transcendence of self. Virosh Singh Baghel, in his perceptive reading of Abhinavagupta, underscores the fact that the aesthetic self is not one of indulgence, but one of refinement. He adds that actual beauty occurs when the feelings are ethically raised when compassion, love, or forgiveness give rise to aesthetic experience. Baghel says, “Aesthetic experience in Abhinavagupta’s schema arises from the heightening of common emotions into universal experiences by means of ethical refinement,” recalling that beauty, at its highest, necessitates an interior discipline, a moral tuning of the heart.
The Silent Strength of Mandodari’s Beauty
In the grand tapestry of the Ramayana, Mandodari stands as a luminous figure whose beauty defies the narrow confines of physical description. Often hailed for her unparalleled grace and charm, Mandodari’s true splendor lies not in the mere arrangement of her features, but in the quiet majesty of her spirit. She is a woman of immense wisdom, steadfast righteousness, and infinite compassion virtues that, in the classical Indian aesthetic tradition, represent the most elevated kind of beauty.
The life of Mandodari is an unflinching performance of piety and moral heroism, played out in the midst of a world torn asunder by Ravana’s unfettered pride and brutality. Again and again, she protests in her voice against the growing wave of adharma, asking her husband to give up his path of destruction and bring order to the world. Her beauty is thus not passive; it is active, moral, and emotionally engaging. She is a mirror of karuṇa rasa the aesthetic emotion of compassion which, according to Abhinavagupta, dissolves the boundaries of the self and enables the spectator to partake in a universal experience of sorrow and empathy.
Nowhere is Mandodari’s beauty more vividly revealed than in her tender appeals to Ravana and her lamentations after the devastation of Lanka. Her grief is not limited to individual sorrow; it is a grief for lost righteousness, for the pain of innocents, and for the fall of a world that might have been redeemed. In this, she becomes a symbol of ethical beauty a living witness to the notion that real beauty resides in emotional depth, moral clarity, and unselfish compassion. Therefore, in the character of Mandodari, beauty is raised from the transitory delights of the eye to the lasting echo of the heart. She shows that to be beautiful is to be profoundly, piercingly human to feel, to love, and to stand firm in the face of moral devastation. Her heritage challenges us to redefine beauty not as a decoration of the flesh, but as a holy flowering of the spirit.
Piety as an Aesthetic Principle
In Mandodari, not only does beauty exceed the mere charm of the body, but it finds a home in the very soul. Her unwavering commitment to righteousness (dharma), her soft but insistent calls for peace, and her unyielding compassion even in the midst of the destructive vanity of her husband create a picture of beauty that is both poignant and deep. In the classical Indian imagination, as clarified by Abhinavagupta’s theories, it is exactly this combination of ethical clarity and emotional intensity that makes up the ultimate form of aesthetic experience.
Abhinavagupta’s idea of the aesthetic self as Virosh Singh Baghel so perceptively indicates requires refinement of the inner life. Beauty, in this light, is not an accident of birth or a surface attribute; it is an achievement of the spirit. Mandodari’s beauty, then, is not simply seen; it is felt, experienced through the karuṇa rasa she evokes a rasa that tenderly dissolves the self into the collective sorrow of humanity. When she stands by herself alone in Lanka’s barren courts weeping for the inevitable devastation that overshadows her dear but doomed kin, her tears are not individual sorrow but a shared lamentation. She is transformed into a symbol of the “emotional sublime,” where the private virtue and public pity blend into a superior aesthetic experience. Her devotion her unshakeable commitment to virtue even in the darkness of darkness becomes a principal aesthetic principle. It is by piety that Mandodari is made beautiful in the fullest sense. Her beauty is not transitory, not limited to the eye; it is a moral brilliance that survives her worldly tale. In equating emotional beauty with ethical truth, Mandodari is what Abhinavagupta would consider the ideal aesthetic being: one who moves others not so much by appearance, but by bringing about within them a deep and common emotional awakening.
In the complex tapestry of Indian aesthetics, beauty is much more than a momentary sensual impression it is a heightening of the spirit, an overcome of the ego, and a triumph of universal compass. Through Abhinavagupta’s theory, we learn that beauty is an ethical virtue, based not on the perfection of form, but on the elegance of feeling and the cultivation of virtues like compassion, love, and righteousness. Mandodari, as depicted in the Ramayana, is an example of this higher beauty. Her personality, defined by emotional richness and moral certitude, presents an ideal of beauty that is beyond the surface concerns usually admired in contemporary culture. In her loss, in her wisdom, and in her unstinting allegiance to dharma, Mandodari becomes an ideal of beauty that is at once eternal and universal. Her life challenges us to redefine the very essence of beauty, compelling us to look beyond superficial appearance and see the deep beauty born of the purity of heart, the power of piety, and the ability to transcend one’s own suffering for the good of others. In the end, beauty, as Mandodari teaches us, is not something to be seen, but something to be felt a deep, collective experience that connects us all.
References
(Baghel, V.S., 2024.) Theorising the Idea of Aesthetic Self in Abhinavagupta. Bits pilani.
(Valmiki, Ramayana, trans. by C. Rajagopalachari, 1989) 3rd edn, Bharatiya Vidya Bhavan, Book VI, Chapter 10, Mandodari’s lament
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